I think it depends on the family. We don't use the step-relation thing when Steph and I refer to each other (at least, I don't think she calls me her step-mother.) I think it's the father's wife/husband's daughter if we don't refer to each other by name. YMMV though.. if anyone were to say it's done "this way" then someone will pop up saying they do it the other way.
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Date: 2008-03-09 04:34 pm (UTC)