Okay, I need some opinions....

[arib]

A person who, almost two years ago, informed me that she no longer wanted to have anything to do with me has suddenly popped up on my IM buddy list for the first time since that conversation.

Do I:

a) suck it up and strike up a conversation?

b) realize that I'm still hurt and pissed off and do nothing?

c) none of the above?

Right now I'm leaning towards b.

Comments

[dandelion-diva.livejournal.com]

B.

You have *no* obligation to this person, one way or the other, and since she doesn't seem to have the guts or class to say something along the lines of "Sorry about what happened, I was a jerk to you and I feel bad about it.", it *doubly* isn't your obligation.

Sorry she was a jerk to you.

Gesi

[chaiya.livejournal.com]

I agree. I assume you're talking about Shuly? Unless she starts talking with you and apologizes for the hurt she caused, you don't need to deal with crap from her.

*hugs*

Re:

[arib.livejournal.com]

That's what I'd planned on from the get-go, just wanted to see some other opinions.