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A person who, almost two years ago, informed me that she no longer wanted to have anything to do with me has suddenly popped up on my IM buddy list for the first time since that conversation.

Do I:

a) suck it up and strike up a conversation?

b) realize that I'm still hurt and pissed off and do nothing?

c) none of the above?

Right now I'm leaning towards b.

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Date: 2002-07-17 10:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teddywolf.livejournal.com
As she told you to go aweh two years ago, I would suggest something along the lines of the following:
1) do not strike up a conversation. She has not rescinded her earlier request, despite her being the one to add you to her buddies list.
2) If after a month she hasn't said anything to you, list her in your /ignore file, make yourself invisible to her and drop her back off your buddies list. You don't have to do the /ignore thing, but I'd suggest the other two quite strongly.n

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