Okay, I need some opinions....

[arib]

A person who, almost two years ago, informed me that she no longer wanted to have anything to do with me has suddenly popped up on my IM buddy list for the first time since that conversation.

Do I:

a) suck it up and strike up a conversation?

b) realize that I'm still hurt and pissed off and do nothing?

c) none of the above?

Right now I'm leaning towards b.

Comments

[cellio]

B. If she wants to reconcile, she can actualy communicate. So far you've got an appearance on a buddy list (presumably this means she's done the equivalent of bookmarking you). If she doesn't speak up, why should you? And if she does, the response depends on what she says.