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arib ([personal profile] arib) wrote2011-02-18 10:59 am
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Catching up...

Hi, everyone.

The past few weeks have been full of extreme highs and lows.

On the good side of things, my sister Shifra got engaged last week to her boyfriend of (I think) three years. They're planning on a late summer wedding, and I'm really looking forward to it. Oddly, while becoming a parent didn't make me feel old, my little sister's engagement did. :-)

On a sadder note, Aliza's paternal grandfather entered hospice a few days ago. He's been battling mesthelioma pretty much since Aliza and I started dating, and things seem to have reached the final stages. Right now he's resting comfortably, and his immediate family is nearby. Aliza and I are both incredibly grateful that he was able to travel down to Boston from Toronto back in December to meet Rena.

Through everything, Rena, like her name, has been an absolute joy. It's been amazing watching her grow and develop. She's much more aware of herself, and the world around her. She's much more aware of her hands, and was very pleased with herself when she learned that they could be put in her mouth. (Freud would have a field day with that. Freud's got issues.) She's also started to notice her feet, which she'll stomp when the mood takes her. She's also smiling more, which is fun, too.

That's all for now, more as things develop.

[identity profile] aunt-becca.livejournal.com 2011-02-18 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
my grandfather had mesothelioma, was also in hospice. It's terrible. I'm glad Aliza's grandfather was able to meet Rena. What a bracha for him to meet his great-granddaughter.
It's a trip to watch babies become more aware of themselves and their surroundings. It sounds like you're loving being at home with her :)

[identity profile] vettecat.livejournal.com 2011-02-18 05:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for the sad news but glad you have happy news to balance it out.

[identity profile] mick-hale.livejournal.com 2011-02-19 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
(Freud would have a field day with that. Freud's got issues.)
LOL. So true. So very true. Every time they mentioned Freud in my psych lectures, I gave an audible groan of "I can't freakin' believe they're still teaching this cokehead."

Regarding Shifra's engagement, I will likely have the same reaction when Esther gets engaged. The birth of the twins didn't make me feel old, it just made me wonder how the heck it happened that I produced offspring. (The next person to offer the biological explanation will get smacked.) Mazal tov to both families involved.

As for Aliza's grandfather, I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope that he's kept comfortable.