"Hey Ari, what's a mindfuck?"

"Well Timmy, a mindfuck is the general feeling Ari gets when, in the space of one conversation, he learns that his first serious girlfriend is pregnant, and someone he used to be in love with a long while back is now married..."

This is what happens when you re-establish ties with someone you haven't seen in a long while. If I wasn't so damned happy for the two of 'em, I'd probably be a mess.